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welcome back psychic for your continuous support by commenting on each entry. Both the couple do appreciate your work and your writing. They understand your loneliness, your fear and your emptiness in life, as well as your feelings deep inside your heart. They believe there's a lot of tricks floating in your mind. They are worry if you will become schizophrenia. If you do need help, don't hesitate to consult psychiatrist. They will definitely help you through. They don't mind if you would like to dirty up a little on this blog by expressing your feeling, if it does help you. Good sleep and rest well !!! .... May god bless you... =)

To Anonymous...

Firstly, she would love to thanks for visiting her page, and of course spending some time on her writing. Being a loyal reader probably? or being a stalker in her little family? since it's posted publicly in the internet world, so, they are not stalker ! ...... Thanks, Loyal Reader.

"i feel so embarrassed to even comment on your post... but thank god i can remain anonymous" ==> Don't do it when you don't feel too ..... remaining anonymous, because you are coward? or because you dare not to reveal your own personality? ....Anyway, thanks for reading yea!
to this anonymous, i would advise, observe less, care less, and most of all, you don't need to be too emotional if you ain't one of the mentioned character on the previous post....unless, you "tersingung" or "tertekan" .....and you feel something out of it....On how I treat my loved one, it's definitely none of your business at all !! .... The real friends of the husband will not only accept him but to also accept the wife as one... =) ... And definitely, you can't find another me in this world...Ain't everyone is unique even they are twin .... Thanks for the fact, and my readers know the fact well since they are little...
"Looks like you failed us" ... I don't need to please anyone besides my family ..... =) ...I am sorry and I apology for i failed you! .... Because I never mean to act anything to please you, afterall ...

"Should the little girl maintains the comments posted, BINGO!!! she FINALLY traps you to bitch about her" , To the well wisher, seems like you know me well ..... =) .... Someone just couldn't stand ppl of having a good life... =)

"As to The Well Wisher, shut your bloody mouth if you know NUTS about the real situation !!" ah ha..... Seems like someone pretending or act like, AS IF he/she knows her well ....Good one... but, don't scold my readers....mind your words ... everyone is thinking differently...

"PROBLEM WILL END ONLY IF WHAT YOU SAID WAS TRUE AND YOUR HUSBAND REALLY LOVE YOU! " .... hmmm, let's pray for the problem ending soon ...since ppl are starting revealing themselves..... and just a post, ppl start to defend themselves...

"a married WOMAN called herself a little girl?" ...hmmm, seems like you didn't read the profile till the end...read it once again!, i hope it's not too hard to understand....

"What do u mean "used and tear"[Torn]? Pat is a gentle lover."....yea, pat is....=)

All in all, Thanks for reading and commenting !~ ..... Stay tune =)

BeTtEr BondInG ThrOuGh SoLviNg IssUes..

Since the starts of their relationship, people who surround them has been betting for how long the relationship will last...Especially those who are so-call "good friend" ... All sort of things done to them. Firstly by hurting the wife name through creating story after story. Then all these people found that their effort is just a waste, and the worst thing they did was approaching the in-law to not only hurting the wife by the wife family as well. She would says, she is very glad to have a wise parent in law who are not being much influence by all these cruel act. When they realize their effort are just effortless, here they come again to lecture the wife during her most unstable emotion. It wasn't easy for her to just keep it deep inside her heart, by not defending on every single thing that they did to her. But, when all these step over her limit, she burst out. She just feel as lucky when she confronted all her feeling to her husband, and her husband have the same thought toward all these people who tried hard to destroy them. He stands next to her, support her and believe in her.

Insulting surely hurts, whether that person is on purpose or just for jokes. No one realize how sad she was, besides her own husband. But, to avoid creating problem, they keep silent. However, the wife couldn't stand of having such insulting, as the more she thought of it, she felt, it's best to inform that person, those words hurt. This is to stop having another insult in the future. Slight arguement between the husband and wife. Eventually, the husband agreed. Those insulting words should stop from NOW and it's not a good choice to wait for the second time to happen....

All the things happened, bring them lot of sadness. They did argue over the issue, over the consequences of each acts, and what things best to maintain their relationship from being destroyed. Big argument, small arguement ..... which family doesn't have? But, the most of all this bring them to understand each other better....She did feel really glad of having all the things happened though it wasn't something pleasant .... Things happened for a reason, and she believes the reason being for all these are to teach them a lesson to be truthful to each other, to be more understanding, and to be a loving couple for the rest of their life.

2009 X'mas has over, & 2010 New year has past....The present...

Happy belated x'mas, new year & holiday seasons, to all the readers ~! .... She wishes everyone with smooth sailing year ahead, and happiness always be with each other.
A month has flies off since the last entry in this blog. To her, everything seem just as ordinary as usual. Not much of changes, and she is still focusing well. Staying with her husband & the prince in all festive season is the thing she wishes for in the coming years.

Her resolution?....... None for this year!..... Just do her best in all the role she is playing in the family, being a daughter, sister, wife, mother, daughter-in-law and of course as a sister-in-law as well.... not to forget...... being an employeeeeeee.... Yes, not trying to be a good friend this time round... for friendship, she would like to follow the flow... Whoever choose to be with her, will always be with her.... to accept her in every way she is ....

For the past one month, she was struggling with her emotions. For some unknown reason, she was feeling down, sad, and hopeless... Negative thinking, and thought, and behavior shown to her husband. With continuous support to each other, encouragement, they went through that "bad" moments together. Thanks god! ...

For once, she thought of changing the whole current environment. Leaving the place and moving to a brand new environment that would probably bring her to know her life better in term of family and career.

It's all Over, it has Past..... for NOW, she is learning to be more focus in her life, be more determine, and be more responsible. =) ....

Sincere Visit...Thanks DHL-ian...

This post is mean for the wife's ex-colleagues. She does feeling glad of having some sincere visit by this bunch of ppl. They did enlighten her day. For the 9 months of working in DHL, this bunch of ppl have came into her life. She wasn't expecting much from them. To her, this bunch of ppl, are the ppl she used to hang around during her working time in DHL. Those time, when they were having lunch together, tagging along for a few outings, and a few chat during their free time. But, today, this bunch of ppl did not forget her, eventhough she has left the company for 8 months ! Instead, they still treating her so well as a family to them. They have purposely drop by at Teluk Intan to pay her and baby lucas a visit. It's a short visit, but it does mean a lot to her.

Thanks, ppl! .... and Jess, for the very meaning entry on her blog with the beautiful pictures and video of baby lucas!

http://jesslim.blogspot.com/2009/12/special-dedication-post-to-tan-family.html

Once DHL-ian, forever DHL-ian, regardless of where we will be in the future....She is really happy and glad of knowing this bunch of friends !! ...

10th December 2009

10th December 2009 - 7th month marriage anniversary for the couple, and it also marked down the day of baby lucas' fullmoon. The couple, thanks god once again for having a loving family they had build as well as baby lucas is all healthy, safe and sound! ... Let's pray their loving family will continue to move on and baby lucas stay healthy all the way ... =)

In law held a fullmoon party for baby lucas. Everyone in the family came home, many visits from friends and family. Thank you for attending, for the pressie and for the beautiful sincere hearts, and for their sincere best wishes !

She is here, to thanks a few sincere friends, who heard her all the way... being so supportive to her, and being so encouraging. =)

The sleepless nights

It was a sleepless night to everyone in the family when baby lucas was admitted to hospital. The mother is required to stay over at the hospital to look after her own little prince. It was her first time in life taking care of a child. Carrying and feeding her prince all by her own in that very fine night.

Whilst, the family was so worry about the mother on handling the prince, they as well have very little sleep on that night.

Due to lack of experience in taking of a baby by the wife, baby lucas was fall sick after discharge from hospital. It took a few days for baby lucas to recover, and that very few days have caused the whole family with sleepless nights! ...

With the family helps and loves, the couple do feel very thankful. Thanks god ... =)