Since the starts of their relationship, people who surround them has been betting for how long the relationship will last...Especially those who are so-call "good friend" ... All sort of things done to them. Firstly by hurting the wife name through creating story after story. Then all these people found that their effort is just a waste, and the worst thing they did was approaching the in-law to not only hurting the wife by the wife family as well. She would says, she is very glad to have a wise parent in law who are not being much influence by all these cruel act. When they realize their effort are just effortless, here they come again to lecture the wife during her most unstable emotion. It wasn't easy for her to just keep it deep inside her heart, by not defending on every single thing that they did to her. But, when all these step over her limit, she burst out. She just feel as lucky when she confronted all her feeling to her husband, and her husband have the same thought toward all these people who tried hard to destroy them. He stands next to her, support her and believe in her.
Insulting surely hurts, whether that person is on purpose or just for jokes. No one realize how sad she was, besides her own husband. But, to avoid creating problem, they keep silent. However, the wife couldn't stand of having such insulting, as the more she thought of it, she felt, it's best to inform that person, those words hurt. This is to stop having another insult in the future. Slight arguement between the husband and wife. Eventually, the husband agreed. Those insulting words should stop from NOW and it's not a good choice to wait for the second time to happen....
All the things happened, bring them lot of sadness. They did argue over the issue, over the consequences of each acts, and what things best to maintain their relationship from being destroyed. Big argument, small arguement ..... which family doesn't have? But, the most of all this bring them to understand each other better....She did feel really glad of having all the things happened though it wasn't something pleasant .... Things happened for a reason, and she believes the reason being for all these are to teach them a lesson to be truthful to each other, to be more understanding, and to be a loving couple for the rest of their life.
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i feel so embarrassed to even comment on your post... but thank god i can remain anonymous coz to be honest i wouldn't want to be link to you in anyway.... but i do pity you and the little family of yours for all your stupid and childish doings.
Just to shed some lights, I’m not your friend nor family member and unwillingly somehow can be tagged as your acquaintance,
I can be considered as an observer of all your little dramas. It’s over girl; your blog can only deceive a limited number of readers – maybe some friends whom you don’t meet for 10 yrs but most of the time appear like a joke to others.
You’re a shameless woman, such a not understanding wife, demanding partner and worst of all, controlling as hell. Congrats to all your ex-es and good luck to your hubby Patrick as he just won himself 1 hell of a ‘jackpot’ as there wont be another ‘YOU’ in this world. (Thank god there won’t be).
Not too sure if you’re suffering from mental illnesses or schizophrenia, but the good news is the dramas and little stories from you is pretty interesting and exciting and of coz entertaining.
You’re a childish, selfish and unreliable mother. Instead of focusing your energy, soul and time in creating stories, go barking around at other friends, writing blogs which can only deceive countable friends, you should learn to be a more responsible and role model to ur son.
Everyone does think that Patrick marrying you is the biggest mistake in his life, but to no avail it has to be done. (Not bad huh.. your tricks worked very well). We still have to accept it, face the reality and give u guys the well wishes, and everyone starts to have 2nd thoughts… maybe we’re wrong.. maybe they’re really in love .. maybe they’ll be happy, maybe this little devil will changed to be a better person, a more likeable friend, responsible mum and loving wife…
Oo shit…. Looks like you failed us!! Again n again, unnecessary dramas, crying, hoo haa~~ really all shit la…. However thanks to your shitty attitude, your friends.. opss, forgot you hardly have one, your hubby’s friends have the excuses to stay away fr u.. thinking that u have mental problem…
So.. sayonara crazy woman.. have a good life…, I just pray Lucas can grow up healthy without the stupid influence fr his mum… PERIOD.
+1
Blogs is a good avenue to bring the best out of a person but mindfully can be sizzling at times. There are repercusions to words in this case, the dueling of a known by name but not at heart and an unnamed but known heart souls.
Just before harsh words are uttered and exchanged, imagine of the ultimate eventual loser of all irregardless, Mr Patrick Tan. How irony to say how loving the family is become and righteous friend to have. Time for a wife to wake up from self-inflicting fantasies of "she is right all times" and an anonymous who speaks so daring only for fear of revealing his name. Freedom of speech and expression huh?
Hi Anonymous, i do not know whether you've written down is the truth or not. I believe that the little girl created a blog is to share her inner feelings within her own world. Should the little girl maintains the comments posted, BINGO!!! she FINALLY traps you to bitch about her, how true her blogs were that her so-called good friends (or maybe her self-claimed good friends) so unsupportive, how true her blogs were that nobody understands her, how true her blogs were those cowards out there dare not confront these little girl to talk things through. Should the little girl deletes the post, the above-mentioned by the unknown is the UGLY TRUTH or the little girl practices the transparency and democracy in these blog (FYI, the govt is applying it too, the results shown....everyone knows...need not mention further)
Dear Little Girl, unsure how much you have learnt from all the dramas you've been through. BUT I bet you are not learning anything perhaps a little. Stronger bonds are NOT built through self-creating issues and only then you solving the latter. I am unqualified to talk about the life as I am still a baby who listens, understands and learns. All the best to you the little girl.
Well said Anonymous !! it is indeed 大快人心！As to The Well Wisher, shut your bloody mouth if you know NUTS about the real situation !!
Although i don't know who you are and what was happen to you and your small family, but after i read through all the comment, you sound like a very good story teller. If a real happy family like what you had, your hubby should stay away from all those friends, do your hubby agree to do so for keeping this "HAPPY" family relationship?
PROBLEM WILL END ONLY IF WHAT YOU SAID WAS TRUE AND YOUR HUSBAND REALLY LOVE YOU!
coz you/she said:"she just feel lucky when she confronted all her feling to her husband, and her husband have the same thought toward all these people who tried hard to destroy them. He stands next to her, support her and believe in her".
She sounded like the husband really damn understanding and love his wife. Couple like that should not have any problem, unless either party is being "FAKE" to each other.
Well well well...a married WOMAN called herself a little girl? Sound innocent ha? One who has gone thru SEX is still a little girl? Pls stop all your nonsense "CUTE INNOCENT LITTLE GIRL"...USED and TEAR pls !!
the post on 7:34pm - Your comment is hostile, not to mentioned a wee too offensive. What do u mean "used and tear"[Torn]? Pat is a gentle lover.
Evil is like a shadow, it has no real substance of its own, it's simply lack of light. We are human,we made mistakes. At times, it doesn't bother you're married, single, 1st age, 2nd age or even 3rd age, we do have emotion, it's not so-called "crazy" or childish. It's feeling expressed from your inner heart.
Here the little girl who is MY WIFE, i really apologize for not being protective, being caring, and give you the security you NEED that lead you become emotional or saying things that hurt those who around you. It's my fault!!
The sad truth is that never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel.
BUT i do love you, my wife.
Sincerely and sorry,
Patrick Tan
Oh wow .... Tan, you are so poetic. Don't tell me you copy and paste from somewhere ar?? Hahaha ...
Jokes aside, lets meet up face to face? I would very much like to meet poster number 3, your words hit the right spot.
Drinks on me for those that were to come to Dana 1 Commercial Centre. Yes a very obvious hint to who I am.
hello the Anonymous @January 18, 2010 5:05, @January 18, 2010 4:26, @January 18, 2010 7:34, I would say you are just little kids growing under your parent's wide umbrella. If you really hate a person why bother to read the blog and comment? Period. Anyway, everyone has freedom of speech, kids too, and idiots also.
Please, eat your ice-cream and KFC and f*** off. Cry to your mum, not here.
oh... I just walk by, I am in no way connecting to all of this. For the couple, no matter what you did, just be responsible to each other (and family) and the little kid. Cheers.
- Johnny
Darien,
yes, patrick is poetic and he is romantic too, with me... It does not matter if it's a copy and paste from somewhere, because, it's all true from his heart. =) ....
Johny,
Thanks for being neutral.... no worry, we are trying our best to be responsible to our family member and of coz our little son too ....
ya ah san .... the most memorable of tan's copy and paste is the 'miscopy and paste' quotes on the bali picture we taken together .... something about rest in pieces. Tat's classic, LOL.
Also for all the anonymous posters on this forum, hostile or friendly I sincerly hope we could come out for a drink. Ya, u know I am Darien (ie- anonymous 10:50pm) No hostility .... just sharing session, do it for our friend?
Cheers
Darien,
pat loves to read william shakespear's books.
Good to have a drink session. Me and hubby definitely ON for it ... =) ...
It seems like there are a big drama here by some unknown...
To Anonymous... go get a life... and do not disturb other people's life... do not use "EVERYONE" in your comment as not everyone will agree with you... You think you are smart enough to conclude everything just by this blog? You think that you know everything? Obviously you are entitled to comment on the all the posts but you commented like you knew every single thing. From what I see from you comment, you don't know what is life. If you understand life, you will appreciate your own life and OTHERS. Hence, you would not be making nasty comment to hurt MeiSan more or to add to her misery.
MeiSan, be strong. A relationship will have obstacles along the way. When two of you managed to solve it, then your love will grow stronger and two of you will understand each other more. If you can't overcome it, then it is gone. I have been through some problems over the years with my loved one, and all those problems made us stronger and understand each other more. Problems are part of love, so face it calmly and stick together with your husband, then everything will be alright.
Take care.
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